Teen Suicide Prevention
Talking
about suicide is not easy. It is incredibly difficult and
uncomfortable, because talking about suicide is talking about mental
health. It is talking about something that is not seen as
specifically as the mark after a blow or a cut. It is something that
feels. But not because of the absence of its physical representation,
it is less painful, dangerous, or important than a physical blow.
Some would even argue the opposite: it is even more important. :)
WHAT
ABOUT OUR TEENAGERS?
Adolescence
is a stage of life characterized by many changes at the physical,
hormonal, emotional, intellectual, and social levels. Of all its
changes, neurological maturation (or evolution of the brain) seems to
be the most interesting. Most of the pioneers in interpersonal
neurobiology, has pointed out that due to his neural changes, the
adolescent is:
- more likely to take risks
- more interested in creating social connections (with peers and friends)
- more emotionally intense
- more curious to exploit their creativity
These
features are not dangerous on their own, but without the necessary
protective factors that we will address later in this article - these
Emotions can become too strong for the adolescent to understand.
The
adolescent is a mixture of several personality traits: she is
energetic, but lazy; it is impulsive, but predictable; she is
challenging, but dependent; she is lonely but sociable; among other.
All of these contradictions are normal and expected at this stage,
and show why the adolescent needs an empathetic, loving,
understanding environment with firm limits, and patient to foster
their full development and potential.
WHAT
DO THE INVESTIGATIONS SAY?
Suicide
is the third leading cause of death among youth ages 15-24. Many
people, mainly mothers and fathers, believe that talking to their
children about suicide or talking openly about it at home is going to
have a determining factor in whether their children manifest a
suicide attempt. According to the American Association of
Suicidology, the more you talk, the more opportunities there are to
intervene appropriately.
Another
of the great myths around teenage suicide is that they are a "way
to get attention" or an "exaggerated and dramatic way that
adolescents have to deal with everyday events."
Now,
there are definitely certain risk factors that make adolescents
predisposed to resort to suicide attempts and consider these
alternatives:
- Health factors - anxiety, medical conditions, substance abuse
- Psychological factors - recent losses, unresolved duels, mental disorders, bullying or cyberbullying situations
- Family medical history factors - previous attempts, family members who have died of suicide, family history of depression
WHAT
ARE THE ALARM SIGNS?
Ideation
- the adolescent will not necessarily say they are thinking of
suicide, but could say comments such as "what if I did not
exist? What would the world be like without me? What would others
think if I ceased to exist?"
Substance
abuse
Feeling
like a burden or like there is no reason to live
- Anxiety
- Feeling trapped and thinking that there is no way out or solution to your problems
- Feeling like you don't care about others
- Separate from friends, family or other social groups
- Seems to get mad easily
- Act impulsively
- Changes in mood
WHAT
CAN BE DONE?
The
most important thing is to open the space to speak it. We know that
knowing that a loved one, and more a son or daughter, are thinking
about suicide can evoke a lot of fear. But, you have to overcome the
stigma and shame around the subject, and open a healthy space. No
judgments, no taboos, no blame.
The
American Association of Suicidology recommends having no weapons or
deadly methods available to young people. In turn, equip them with
good tools for problem solving, openly talk about mental health at
home, make use of an interdisciplinary team of professionals
(counselors, school psychologists, therapists, doctors,
pediatricians, among others) , and foster healthy emotional
relationships and connections between parents and children.
Suicide
is preventable, and together we can make a difference to help young
people who are going through a difficult situation. Please talk about
it!
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